Expectations Worksheet

Beginning at the start of our relationship as a couple

What time frame do you want covered in the disclosure?

General sexual behaviors only (E.g. pornography, chat rooms, etc.)

Specific sexual acts (E,g. types of pornography such as consensual heterosexual, specific behaviors engaged in within chat rooms, etc.)

Yes - I need to know about acting out that occurred both in-person and any chat/video/electronic communication with others.

Yes - but only if the acting out occurred in person

I must know every detail he can remember (E.g. acting out took place at the 

I must know locations in our city/nearby cities

I want the general extent of locations, not the details (E.g. acting out took place at home, at hotels)